The reason Gen Z employees don’t respond well to “this is how we’ve always done it” isn’t entitlement — researchers say it’s the first generation that grew up watching institutions fail in real time and stopped treating longevity as proof of quality

  • Tension: We tell young people that institutions earn trust through longevity, then act surprised when a generation that watched those institutions fail in real time disagrees.
  • Noise: The dominant conversation frames Gen Z’s distrust as a personality defect — entitlement or impatience — rather than a rational response to observable institutional failure.
  • Direct Message: Gen Z’s skepticism isn’t a generational flaw to be corrected; it’s a diagnostic tool that older institutions urgently need to take seriously.

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In my thirty years working with students — first in classrooms, then in counseling offices — I’ve watched institutions make a particular kind of mistake with young people. They confuse respect for authority with respect for age. The two are not the same thing, and the difference matters enormously right now.

A manager who says “this is how we’ve always done it” is making a longevity argument. They’re pointing to duration as evidence of value. For most of the twentieth century, that argument had enough cultural weight behind it to work, at least some of the time. Young people might push back, but the gravitational pull of established institutions — schools, banks, governments, corporations — was strong enough to absorb the dissent.

Something shifted with Gen Z. Not because this generation is uniquely rebellious or uncommonly impatient, though those adjectives get deployed frequently. What shifted is that the longevity argument stopped being persuasive to a generation that had watched, in explicit and unavoidable detail, what longevity had actually produced. They didn’t reject institutions on principle. They rejected them on evidence.

The Promise That Kept Not Coming True

There is a contact I’ve maintained with former students over the years — people now in their mid-to-late twenties — and the conversations I’ve had with them in recent years share a common quality. Not anger, exactly. Something more like the flat affect of someone who expected a thing and consistently didn’t get it.

Gen Z, loosely defined as those born between 1997 and 2012, came of age during a period of cascading institutional failure that is genuinely without parallel in recent memory. The 2008 financial crisis, which many of them absorbed not as a news event but as a lived-in reality of stressed households and absent parents and vague adult anxiety, was only the beginning. The decade that followed brought Brexit, the opioid crisis, climate pledges that were routinely broken, a global pandemic that exposed the brittleness of public health infrastructure, and social media that made institutional hypocrisy visible at a speed and scale that previous generations never encountered.

Gallup research confirms that no institution is trusted by a majority of Gen Z members — with the sole exception of science. This is not a marginal finding. It is a sweeping verdict rendered across government, media, financial systems, corporations, and religious organizations alike.

The cultural contradiction here is sharp and worth sitting with. We tell young people that respect must be earned, and then we expect them to extend it automatically to institutions whose track record of earning it has been, by any honest measure, mixed at best. We ask them to defer to structures built on the premise of reliability while those structures visibly malfunction. We call it entitlement when they decline.

What I’ve observed over three decades of watching young people grow up is that they are, in fact, exquisitely attuned to adult hypocrisy. Not vindictively — developmentally. The identity formation work of adolescence and early adulthood requires testing the stated values of the adults around you against observable reality. Gen Z simply did that testing and got a particular set of results.

What We Keep Calling the Wrong Thing

The loudest explanation circulating in management seminars, op-ed pages, and HR departments for Gen Z’s relationship to authority is, unfortunately, not a very good one. The dominant framing is essentially psychological: this generation is entitled, fragile, or — in the more sympathetic version — traumatized. Any of these framings arrives at the same managerial conclusion: the problem is them, and the solution is to help them adjust.

This is conventional wisdom doing what it does most reliably, which is to locate the problem in the least powerful group and protect the institutions that might otherwise have to examine themselves.

The Harvard Youth Poll, which surveys thousands of young Americans annually and is considered one of the most rigorous longitudinal tools for tracking this cohort, describes the defining thread running through Gen Z responses as instability — not as ideology, not as personality, but as environment. Polling director John Della Volpe has described a generation openly questioning whether the country’s fundamental systems can deliver for them, with that skepticism rooted not in nihilism but in direct observation of what those systems have and haven’t done.

That distinction — between nihilism and evidence-based skepticism — is the one most commentators miss. A person who distrusts institutions because they are philosophically opposed to authority is holding an ideological position. A person who distrusts institutions because those institutions have repeatedly said one thing and done another is performing an act of basic reasoning. Most of Gen Z is doing the second thing, not the first.

The management literature that labels this cohort as “difficult to retain” or “allergic to hierarchy” is, largely, performing a category error. The category it’s using is attitude. The category it should be using is information. Gen Z employees are not walking into workplaces with a chip on their shoulder about authority in the abstract. They are walking in with a well-developed and historically grounded data set about what happens when you extend institutional trust without requiring institutions to earn it. They watched their parents do exactly that. They saw what it cost.

Treating that data set as a personality disorder to be coached away is not only analytically incorrect. It is also strategically counterproductive for any organization that actually wants to benefit from what this generation has to offer.

The Diagnostic Gift Inside the Skepticism

Gen Z’s distrust of institutions isn’t a generational wound that needs healing — it’s a mirror that institutions need to look into. The question isn’t how to win back their deference. It’s whether the deference was ever deserved.

Building Institutions Worthy of the Scrutiny

What does it actually look like to take Gen Z’s skepticism seriously rather than pathologizing it? It looks different from what most organizations are currently attempting.

The typical institutional response to Gen Z mistrust involves communication strategies: more transparency, better onboarding, clearer values statements. These are not useless, but they mistake the symptom for the disease. Gen Z is not skeptical because institutions communicate poorly. They are skeptical because institutions, in their lived experience, have often said the right things and done the wrong ones. More communication, delivered with the same structural logic underneath it, produces more skepticism, not less.

What actually shifts the needle is behavioral alignment over time — institutions that do what they say, consistently enough and visibly enough that the claim becomes credible. In my experience working with young people across three decades, I’ve found they are often far quicker to extend genuine loyalty when they encounter consistency than older commentators give them credit for. The issue isn’t that they’re incapable of trust. It’s that their threshold for extending it is calibrated by experience rather than convention.

There is something useful in that calibration for institutions willing to receive it. An organization that asks honestly why its Gen Z employees don’t believe “this is how we’ve always done it” constitutes a reason to keep doing it may find the answer reveals something important about whether that practice actually deserves to continue. A government that asks why young people don’t assume competence may find the answer contains a useful diagnostic about where competence has actually broken down.

The generation that grew up watching institutions fail is not the generation that needs to change its expectations. It may be, quietly and inconveniently, the generation most equipped to tell us what those institutions need to do differently — if we can stop describing their observations as a character flaw long enough to listen.

What this moment asks of institutions is something harder than a communication refresh. It asks for the willingness to be held to account by people who did not agree to pretend that longevity is the same as legitimacy. That is an uncomfortable ask. It is also, if we take seriously the evidence Gen Z has been compiling since childhood, a necessary one.

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Bernadette Donovan

After three decades teaching English and working as a school guidance counsellor, Bernadette Donovan now channels classroom wisdom into essays on purposeful ageing and lifelong learning. She holds an M.Ed. in Counselling & Human Development from Boston College, is an ICF-certified Life Coach, and volunteers with the National Literacy Trust. Her white papers on later-life fulfilment circulate through regional continuing-education centres and have been referenced in internal curriculum guidelines for adult-learning providers. At DMNews she offers seasoned perspectives on wellness, retirement, and inter-generational relationships—helping readers turn experience into insight through the Direct Message lens. Bernadette can be contacted at [email protected].

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